• CRONE TALES

    The Seaweed on the Pillow, a fairy tale for enlightenment

    Darkness falls and strange winds do blow. Women, come inside quick, for woodland creatures do roam and play tricks. Sit at the table and share a fish soup. It’s time for the crone to tell her tiny tale, so open your mind and heart and find what meaning you will. 

    There once was a tiny sea encroached by a tall green forest filled with bears. A widowed mother lived on the east shore and her grown son on the west. The mother suffered, believing her son’s life was not what it could be.

    “You must travel through the forest come winter when bears sleep,” she declared one evening at meal. “There you will find a village and a wife.” She wrung her hands. “If only you’d learned to play the psaltery! Women love men who make music. And why did you never apprentice with the blacksmith?”

    The evening continued in this fashion, with the mother citing what the son must do for a goodly life. The son, meanwhile, took to staring at his plate.

    “Ah, you are beginning to understand how hard this life is, filled with trials,” the mother said, seeing his grim face. “Do not worry, for I know what you need to do. Go home now and sleep well.”

    But come daybreak, a great stone wall divided the tiny sea with the mother on the east shore and the son on the west. As it was summer and bears did roam, it was too dangerous to pass through the forest, so they had no way to visit one another. The seawall reached to the sky and could not be climbed. 

    The mother did panic. She got in her boat and rowed to the seawall, where waves splashed most fierce. “Hello?” she called out.

    “Mother, where did this seawall come from?” her son answered. For he also had gotten into his boat to see what the seawall was about.

    “I told you this world is filled with trial!” she cried out. As if to prove her right, a great tempest arose, and they each rowed with haste back to their shores.

    Spring and summer passed with mother and son unable to lay eyes upon one another. For though they used hammer and chisel and unsavory words, the stones of the seawall would not be brought down.

    One afternoon the mother looked out her cottage window and received a shock. For a crone did walk upon the sea as would a witch or goddess. Her staff dipped at least six barleycorns into its depths, yet her feet did not sink the least bit.

    The mother called greeting. “Have you come to take down the seawall? My son is on the other side all alone. He has no wife or good skills. What will become of him? I have failed him!” And with this, the mother wept sore.

    The crone walked upon water to shore and straight past the mother into the cottage. There she poked around in the kitchen, rattling pots and looking inside. “I can help you, but you won’t like it,” she said. 

    “I will do anything for my son!”

    Finding a potato in a sack, the crone took a goodly bite. “Very well. Tomorrow we will discover the secret of the seawall. We must see what is it good for.”  

    That very night the crone gathered seaweed to use as thread and sewed the mother’s mouth shut while she slept. Come morning, the crone did not make confession, but patted the mother’s back over this latest misfortune.

    “I will row for you today,” the crone offered.

    At the seawall, the son called to his mother. When she never answered, he did speak free and honest, believing himself to be alone. And the mother with her lips sewn shut with seaweed could do nothing but listen.    

    That night the mother cried herself to sleep over what she did hear her son say. Come morning she woke to find the crone gone, seaweed on her pillow, and the seawall vanished. With joy she ran to her boat. Mother and son met in the middle of the tiny sea where the wall had once been.

    “How did you take down the wall?” he asked, in wonder as he pulled her into his boat and hugged her close.

    “I built the seawall, and I took it down. That is all you need to know.” She took his face between her hands and was sore glad to lay her eyes upon him true. No longer did she desire to conjure a vision of him in her mind, as witches might do. She was delighted to see him exactly as he was.

    Another wonder happened as they shared fish soup that very night. The son knowingly spoke most free and honest to his mother. And when she listened with closed lips and a smile, he did sprout the most beautiful wings.

    Heaven on earth is like this.

    This particular Crone Tale is inspired by my own suffering when I’ve believed that one or another of my sons is missing out somehow in life, or doesn’t have the life that he could. And yet, when I let go of my mother-identity and slip into that expansive acknowledgment that something very big and mysterious is happening here, it occurs to me that Life is looking after my sons according to the intentions of their own souls–not mine, for heaven’s sake! I’m not omniscient. I can’t know what is best for my sons. I can’t know what serves their souls.  

    Author Byron Katie says to stay in your own business. It’s the kindest thing to do–for ourselves and for others. It’s best to get out of the way of Life as much as possible, yes? What a relief to know Life is wise when we are not. 

  • CRONE TALES

    The New Bride Who Was Frightened, a fairy tale for enlightenment

    The men are away from home to fight a holy war, a thing which exists not. The women wait and hope and gather together to bake flat cakes on hot hearthstones. Tonight there shall be meat pie! Yet more is needed for hearts so in fear. Come, gather round the crone. She is ready to tell her tiny tale, so open you mind and heart and find what meaning you will.

     

     

    Nuns found a new bride weeping outside their abbey.

    They brought her to the prioress, who was busy whispering spells in the cloister round a garden of trees laden with plum, quince, and bitter orange.

    “She is scorned and thrown away,” the nuns explained. “We must needs pray to St. Wilgefortis, our patron who cares for women with bad husbands!”

    The prioress was familiar with such a need. For men in these dark days did blame women for any matter of evil, imagined or not. She nodded and sent the nuns to contemplate in the nave whatever they wished, and eyed the new bride. “Why do you weep?” she inquired.

    “I am so frightened,” the new bride answered in trembling voice. “My husband accused me of despoiling tombs so that a throng did try to stone me. This morn he returned me to my childhood home. My father cursed me, saying the truth must be I made a cuckold of my husband. I am all alone in the world, a terrible place! What good can come to me now?”

    “I wonder indeed. Walk with me.”

    The new bride sobbed as she strolled beneath beautiful stone arches swaying atop columns of thorned roses.  “Oh, what good can come to me now?” she wailed over and again. After a time, she became hungry and noticed within the garden the many fruit trees. “Are those plums?” she asked, sniffling. She wondered had the nuns baked on this day a fine plum pie.

    “Not yet ripe. But wait.” The prioress waved her hand, and the fruit grew plump and heavy. “There now. My daughter, did you notice where on the trees the fruit grows?”

    “All over,” the new bride said as she plucked a plum and bit deep. Juice dribbled down her chin.  

    The prioress moved to stand beside a tree, her wimple grazing its leaves. She gazed at the plums with serious face. “Nay. Fruit does not grow on the wide trunk of the tree, nor even where the tree divides into thick branches. Do you see? The fruit is found hanging on thin limbs. Why do you suppose this is?”

    “I do not know, Prioress.”

    “You speak a good answer,” the prioress praised. “For we do not understand why things are as they are, but surely, fruit loves to grow where the tree is most fragile.”

    With this, the prioress lifted the new bride’s chin with an age-spotted finger. “And so shall you bear fruit where you are most fragile. Have faith and do not despair. Be bright and alert. For good can come to you most especially now.”

     

    This is a citrusy take on the saying, “It’s darkest before the dawn.”

    For whatever reason, it’s true that when we’re broken, the light gets in so much easier. Remember that even when you’re afraid of the dark, your soul is not. So, be bright and alert and brave when you experience a dark night, for that is when your soul most often bears fruit in this world.

    And that is EXACTLY how heaven comes to earth.